"The Conscious Girlfriend Academy

made our relationship possible."

Pierce says, "I had never thought I would do online dating, but the Conscious Girlfriend Academy gave me the courage.  And it worked!  Laura and I met through the profile I wrote in class. 

"The first time we met face to face, we talked about relationship vision in depth [as the Academy had taught me.] Although we had chemistry, we didn't do anything romantic that time. [I had learned that, too!] 

"We both knew we wanted a conscious relationship. So over the next few months, she took the Academy Attachment Healing Class, while I took other classes, and we shared what we were learning.

"One of the classes that had a big impact on me was the class available to Academy Members on Creating A Relationship As Unique As You Are. 

"I had thought the words 'relationship' and 'ease' were oxymorons. The Academy helped me open to the idea that I could have a relationship with ease, and we do."

Why Lesbian Dating Boot Camp? 

Lesbians are bold, courageous and beautiful. And we are highly motivated to love and be loved. Our  relationships can be the best relationships on the planet, but we also face unique challenges.

The skills involved in smart-for-your-heart

lesbian dating are not intuitive.

Many lesbians of all ages say they've never asked another woman out. Instead, they always wait to be asked. There are some obvious problems with this approach :)

Imagine feeling confident enough to:

🖤  Express interest in someone else, knowing you'll feel whole even if she doesn't feel the same way. 

🖤  Stay connected to yourself even while interacting with someone you really like. 

🖤  Know who you are, what you want and what you have to offer in a relationship, and feel worthy and deserving.

🖤  Handle your own dating red flags, and hers, with wisdom, compassion and discernment.

🖤  Speak skillfully when things are tough.

🖤  Trust yourself to stay grounded and safe, even when you open your heart.

These are crucial muscles to build!

A world full of homophobia, trauma and misogyny hasn't exactly prepared us to give and receive the love we want.  

Plus, we've all got attachment pain and triggers that surface when we form deep bonds. 

We all have defenses, fears, blocks, places where we close down too hard and fast, or patterns of trying too hard and staying too long.   

After all, who among us ever got schooled in healthy lesbian relationship skills, or had great role models?