D A T I N G   I S N ' T   E A S Y

"I've had lesbian relationships, but I've really never dated. How do I do it?"

"It's been a long time since I've dated, and the landscape is so different now."

"I know I tend to go too fast, but I don't know how to change that."

"I'm a late bloomer, and have no idea how to start dating women."

'"Sometimes I wonder if the right person for me is even out there, or maybe I'm not meant to have a relationship."

"I want to date because I'm lonely, but my relationship track record isn't good."

"I don't like online dating, but I'm not sure how else to meet women."  

"I'm not sure how to figure out if someone is interested in me."

"I don't know how to make the first move."

"I'm nervous about dating and getting rejected."

"I'm afraid to date, because I don't want to hurt someone if I realize I'm not interested." 

"I hate dating! I just want to be in a relationship!" 

C O M M U N I T Y

"I sometimes feel like I'm not 'gay enough' to be part of the community." 

"I'd love to make some new lesbian or queer friends."

"A lot of my lesbian friends are into drinking, and that's not my scene."

"As a late bloomer, I'm afraid lesbians won't accept me."

"The people I know aren't really growth-oriented or introspective the way I am." 

B R E A K U P S

"My last breakup shattered me. I still can't stop thinking about her and crying."

"I feel like I should get out there and date, but I'm not sure I'm over my ex."

"I don't know how I'll ever be able to trust someone with my heart again."

"I still see my ex around town. It makes it really hard for me to socialize."

"My ex broke up with me suddenly, out of the blue, and I still don't understand why."

"I keep breaking up and making up with the same person." 

"It's been a long time since my breakup, but I don't know how to let go."

"I keep replaying my relationship in my head, because I don't understand what happened."

R E L A T I O N S H I P S 

"My last relationship started out amazing, but then fell apart." 

"I feel like I'm always attracted to the wrong women. If I'm attracted, she'll be bad for me."

"I find myself in the same painful patterns over and over, and I don't know how to break them."

"I know I need help communicating my needs."

"I've been in several toxic relationships. I seem to draw them like magnets."

"I often end up feeling overwhelmed or suffocated in my relationships."

"I don't know why my GF and I fight and bicker so much."

"It feels like we're just roommates. Where did the spark go?"

"I don't trust easily, and I often feel jealous or insecure."

"I don't want to have to give myself up to be in a relationship."

S E X

"I was raised with a lot of guilt and shame, and it still affects me."

"I don't know how to ask for what I want in bed."

"I have fantasies or desires I feel ashamed of."

"I don't feel confident in bed, and it affects my dating and relationships."

"'I never seem to be able to get my needs met in bed."

"A GF asked me what I like, and I froze. I don't even know what I want." 

"My desire for sex is really low. I wonder if I might even be asexual, or just done with sex."

"My relationships start out passionate but then we end up in lesbian bed death. I miss sex!"